Wednesday, May 6, 2020

7 essential services to our parents


When we were in our childhood our parents did on their level best to make us survived in this world.They didn't put us single in a room or anywhere because we might get frightened. When we were little children,we had no common sense what to do or what type of work not to do.We made a lot of problems to our parents.But they took all of our problems with their happy smiles.Though we made many critical problems for them,they were sympathetic to us and didn't take any avenge on us. So,who are careful and sympathetic like them?Our parents are now in their old age.They are dependable on us.We have many responsibilities to them. We have to render duties and services to them though we aren't able to be as careful as they.Here are some things to do and not to do to our parents.

1.Look at their face with cordial sympathy:

Think they would gaze at your face hundreds of thousands of times.They dreamt their happy future at our face.Now we should gaze at their face and think how they behaved with us at our childhood.

2.Be very careful while speaking to them:

We shouldn't use any single slang word before them.We should speak to them normally.Never use aloud speaking to them.

3. Be smiling faced:

While meeting with  our parents we should be smiling faced.Our attitudes should be always positive to them.

4. Give emphasis on their instructions and advice : 

We should always emphasis on our parents's instructions and advice.If any instruction or advice goes against time, we must convince them politely with a cold head.

5.Don't involve in debate with them: 

We know many men,many minds.We may differ in many cases from our parents.We should never involved in debate with them to make our opinion winner .If our opinion seems better or justified we have to turn our opinions into their opinions.

6.Provide them with necessary things:

Our parents need, food, clothes, accommodation,  medicine  etc.We should always meet their wants and provide them with necessary things.We should give priority to their every need.

7. Wash their clothes and clean their sleeping places:

When we were children they did immeasurable duties to us.They washed our waste and urine .But, we feel aversion to our parents when they fall in sick or grow older. It's our duty to wash their waste and urine. We can't catch shy of it.

Parents are the most valuable assets. We should honor and respect them from our deep heart.If we be kind to our parents, Almighty will be with us.May Allah make our parents happy always everywhere.



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